If you’ve recently found yourself thinking “I may want to become a surrogate”, I’m so glad you’re here. Truly. Exploring surrogacy is one of the most thoughtful, generous, and life-changing things a woman can consider—and the fact that you’re even curious about it says so much about your heart.
At Village Surrogacy, I speak with women all the time who tell me, “I think I want to become a surrogate, but I’m not sure where to start.” My response is always the same: let’s take this one step at a time, together.
Why So Many Women Choose This Path
Every surrogate I’ve met has a beautiful story. Some felt called to help another family after experiencing smooth pregnancies of their own. Others wanted to give someone else the joy they feel when they look at their own children. And some just knew in their soul that they were meant to do something meaningful for another family.
If you’re saying to yourself, “I want to become a surrogate because I know I can help,” you’re already speaking the language of this journey—connection, compassion, and purpose.
What Makes Someone a Great Surrogate?
You might be wondering if you’re “qualified” or the “right kind of person” to do this. The truth is, surrogates come from all different backgrounds, but they tend to share common qualities: empathy, resilience, and a big capacity for giving.
Clinics and agencies do have some basic requirements, such as:
- Having had at least one healthy pregnancy
- Being generally between ages 21–40
- No major complications in previous pregnancies
- A stable, supportive home environment
- Not currently relying on government assistance
These guidelines aren’t meant to create barriers—they’re there to make sure that you feel safe, supported, and medically ready for the journey ahead.
So What Actually Happens Once You Say, “I Want to Become a Surrogate”?
I know it can feel like there’s a lot to figure out, but the process truly unfolds step by step:
1. Application & Screening
We get to know you—your health history, your personality, your hopes for the journey.
2. Matching With Intended Parents
This part is magical. You’re introduced to a family who shares your values, outlook, and expectations. Some of the most meaningful relationships in my life have come from these matches.
3. Legal Agreements
Independent attorneys help make sure everything is clear and respectful of your needs and boundaries.
4. Medical Cycle & Transfer
You’ll work with an IVF clinic to prepare for the embryo transfer, with lots of guidance along the way.
5. Pregnancy & Delivery
Throughout the journey, you’re not doing it alone—you have your agency, your intended parents, and your whole “village” cheering for you.
The Heart of Surrogacy
When women tell me, “I want to become a surrogate,” I always remind them that this is more than a medical process. It’s deeply relational. It’s personal. And it’s one of the most extraordinary acts of love you can offer another family.
Surrogates often share that the journey changed them—for the better. They gained confidence, connection, and a sense of purpose they carry long after delivery.
If You’re Ready to Explore This Path…
You don’t have to have all the answers right now. You might still be unsure, nervous, or even a little overwhelmed—that’s completely okay. If your heart is even whispering, “I may want to become a surrogate,” We’re here to help you explore that gently and openly.
At Village Surrogacy, we walk beside you from the first conversation to the final steps of your journey. We make space for your questions, your feelings, your boundaries, and your hopes.
Whenever you’re ready, your village is here.
